Friendships tend to be the place where we feel like we can be ourselves and talk about anything, or so they should if it is a true, genuine, deep friendship. Did you know though that listening to your friends is just as important as talking to them? When you think about it, it makes perfect sense. Of course, we love to have someone to pour our hearts to and receive advice, but friendships should be two-way and equal in both directions. Both parties in the friendship must be able to talk and listen otherwise it is a one-ended deal. Interestingly enough, you can be a good listener by actually starting a conversation. Of course, this depends on the situation and on the specific relationship between two friends, but there are times and topics which can be hard for the person to randomly bring up even though they want to talk to you about it. You can initiate the conversation by giving them this avenue of discussion, but also making sure to remain in the position of the listener and letting them talk.